Leave Spain knowing exactlywhat's next for your life

5 day/4 night retreat, July 20–24, 2026. All inclusive price, except flights and transfers. Limited to 5 beautiful rooms.

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Tossa de Mar, Spain: Where castle & coast converge

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Circular Text PathBOUTIQUE RETREAT IN TOSSA DE MAR  

A coastal retreat on the Costa Brava to give you clarity and dirction.

These retreats are powerful resets. You'll open a door that will never be closed to you again. Having done this work for a while now, we can genuinely say that if you leave the retreat without a clearer sense of what you're moving toward, we'll comp your next one.

And what a place to hit the reset button. Tossa de Mar is a town of rare contrasts — a medieval castle rising over the Mediterranean, the walled old town of Vila Vella, hidden coves carved into the coastline, and the slower rhythm of a Catalan seaside summer. It's a place for people who want beauty and quiet in equal measure.

Our private venue sits inside the old town, a few minutes from the water. The space is designed for stillness and conversation, with easy access to the cobbled streets, nearby coves, and the wider Costa Brava coastline for those who want to explore further.

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Led by people who've been there

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Richard Banfield

Entrepreneur, author, and artist. Richard is a recovering CEO who has built companies, launched 100's of products, helped teams find purpose, and now helps people design the second act of their lives with intention and creativity.

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Devon McDonald

Venture capitalist turned catalyst for connection, clarity, and courageous living. Devon brings grace, energy, and a gift for creating space where real transformation can happen. She’s raising three kids and building a life rooted in authenticity.

Together, they bring real-life experience, warmth, and wisdom to every part of this retreat. As Richard says, "Our approach is to create a classroom where everyone is the student. No gurus, nor masters, just curious minds that are open to possibility."

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This is not a getaway—this is a turning point.

Workshops & Rituals

Thoughtfully guided sessions, daily reflection practices, meaningful connections, and lots of free time to reflect and just be.

Cultural Adventures

Medieval walls. Catalan food made with passion and care. A town perched between sea and stone.

Restorative Moments

Garden journaling, outdoor meals at sunset, pool soaks, and weather permitting, a mystery adventure that'll leave you breathless.

Optional Experiences

Stay a few extra days to explore Girona or one of the Costa Brava towns up and down this magical coastline.

What people say after they leave the retreats

"You couldn’t ask for a better guide to reinvention than Richard. He’s brilliant, curious, empathetic, and a great friend. He constantly challenges himself and those around him to do better, to be better, and anyone lucky enough to attend this retreat will leave renewed."
— Martin
"I just wanted to say thank you — these last few days at Second Harvest were some of the most meaningful I’ve had in a long time. I came in feeling raw and unsure, hoping to find what’s next, and I’m leaving with not just tools, but a community of people I can lean on as I work through a lot of transition, hurt, and healing."
— Nehal Patel
"I can not express how grateful I am for that weekend. Wow I am totally blown away. I really was soooo stuck and it’s helped me see a bit of a way out. It was incredible - you really were not kidding when you said it was going to be magic. Thank you thank you!!"
— Colleen Zulich
"Thank you so much for having me on this trip. It was such an honor to be part of this journey with you. Would love to connect when you’re back and continue this journey together!"
— Mary Grace Levin
This gave me clarity I did not realize I was missing. From the very first day, it surfaced beliefs I had been carrying for years without questioning them or even being aware of them. Seeing those stories clearly helped me understand how much of my urgency, fear, and pressure were rooted in old narratives about identity, safety, and aging.
— Kristen Shaheen
It was a punctuation in time that was much needed; reminding me to be intentional. I appreciated the experimental mindset vs. goal-driven one - which is usually what happens at the onset of any calendar year with resolutions where you are thinking in absolutes. I found this to be much more forgiving, softer, approachable, and framing it in this way felt like way less of a daunting, scrutinizing task and more like a nudge in the self-love direction.
— Lauren Sozio
By working through the combination of "ID" narratives and "OS" narratives and living in the questions, I've achieved an interesting new state of acceptance and curiosity. Instead of trying to optimize my way into a better self, I can instead pursue a felt-state (beginner's mind) to build around:.. openness, curiosity, presence, expression, humility, freedom from expectation, connection, etc. My freedom of movement seems to have increased. And, coincidentally or not, new doors appear to be opening. Super grateful, thank you!
— Brandon Comstock
The biggest realization for me was stepping back and recognizing how long I’ve been stuck in this uncomfortable space, fully identifying with the unhelpful narrative. I’ve been perpetuating this heavy cloud of despair and ruin—completely at odds with the optimistic, adventurous, "can-do-anything" dreamer version of myself. I’m hyper-aware of this now. And know people around me are noticing.
— Chris Merrill
I did day one [of the 72-Hour Reset} yesterday and was truly saddened by the stories that surfaced and how they’ve shaped me. Excited to reframe a few things in my life so I can move forward.
— JP Tanner
I really love how you two consciously create space for people to be vulnerable. It is quite beautiful and so appreciated - especially in a world that sometimes feels lonely, uncertain and polarized.
— Christine Holland
I really appreciate the continued engagement you’ve been offering after the 72-Hour Reset. The biweekly conversations and the effort you’re putting into keeping the community connected say a lot about what you’re building. All of this is landing at a meaningful transitional moment for me, so I’m grateful for the timing.
— Erik Bettencourt
Thank you for a wonderful overall Spring Summit event. The time and love you put into it was evident, and the positive energy was tangible. I loved the breathwork and visualization. The fireside chats were very inspirational. The vulnerability the speakers showed helped them be relatable.
— John Simonetta
I was observing the Spring Summit participants at all times, which is what I always do, and people seemed so connected and so engaged and really really moved by a lot of the conversation. I was so happy for you guys and so glad to be included.
— Kristin Cabot
I felt like I really needed this and it allowed me to take a step back and just pour into myself. It felt great also having some meaningful conversations and connections. You and Richard make such a great team and are doing something so special.
— Kim G
Thank you so much for the chance to join you all. It was so cool to see what you have built and experience it first hand. I came away with some great nuggets. The breath work and my third crop circle session were so dope!
— Bethany LoMonaco
Shit happens in life. In my case, as a CEO you really aren't afforded the mental space to process and adjust. Second Harvest creates an environment of similar beings with similar journeys. You can pause, reflect and set a new course or at the very least a new mindset allowing you to go forward in a more meaningful way.
— Jeff Dickerson
The anti-conference, that has set me on my path. I want to be part of Second Harvest for years to come.
— Elisabeth B
The synergy, empathy, and openness in the room felt like a warm blanket on a chilly day. I left feeling grateful, encouraged, and connected.
— Steve Woodward
I can't tell you how much I loved today's Spring Summit. Thank you for the thoughtfulness with which you brought us all together and helped us along our winding journeys.
— Angela P
I want you to know what I appreciate that WASN'T there: no scarcity sales pitch to join, no loud music and dancing before each session, no long intros for each speaker, no fist pumping your neighbor telling them "YOU can do this." I loved the space that was created, the invitation to be imperfect, the breath… the magic.
— Sandy A
More details to come, but Second Harvest and the 72-hour reset were the catalyst. I made changes at my company this week Team shuffles, getting stable, rebuilding. Love you, bye.
— Chris M
Richard, I can’t even begin to tell you but our life is changing faster than the trees whip by the window when you look HARD RIGHT out of your car when driving down I-95. I’ve made new friends and I’m just fucking blown away about the fact that I’ve tapped into a whole other stratosphere of life, that I never even knew existed before reconnecting with you and Devon. I really want to thank you.
— Randy B
“The retreat gave me emotional clarity I didn’t know I needed. I came looking for quiet and reflection, but what I found was connection. I left with friendships and a renewed sense of courage for what comes next.”
— Suzanne Balassone
I had no idea what I'd be walking into, but I was so happy to be a participant. The energy was real, and the impact was palpable for folks. I suspect that's not an easy emotion to create, so kudos. And, I met some very cool humans.
— Peter Zotto
“There is something rare about being truly seen, and that’s what happened at Second Harvest. It wasn’t about performance, but presence. I left with more than memories — I left with allies.”
— Jennifer Linehan
“The biggest surprise was how much laughter and lightness accompanied the depth. I came expecting something serious and got that, but also joy, play, and the power of pausing. It was exactly what I didn’t know I needed.”
— Brad Stanton
“The retreat was a reminder that slowing down is not the same as stepping back. It’s actually moving forward with more intention. I found space to breathe, and in that space, new ideas emerged.”
— Natalie Fernandez
“We often spend our lives talking, but rarely do we spend them listening. In Austria, I was reminded that silence can be the most generous gift. Second Harvest taught me how to be present again.”
— Wouter Oudemans
“I thought I was coming for inspiration. What I received was transformation. A rare gift, not because it was flashy, but because it was simple, human, and true.”
— Nino Maisuradze
“What struck us was the intimacy of it all. Fireside chats, shared meals, quiet walks in the forest — these were not just activities, they were containers for courage and creativity to emerge. It reminded us why human proximity is the real luxury.”
— Bernhard & Kathrin
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Second Harvest Retreat:
5-Day Journey to Your Next Chapter

Location: Private residence, Tossa de Mar, Spain

Date: July 20–24, 2026

This retreat is for you if:

You're navigating a major transition in your career, relationship, or identity. You want to learn the skills to navigate and find out what comes next

You've succeeded by traditional standards you know you have more to give and crave a path of creativity, calm, and clarity

You want more than a break;
you want a breakthrough supported by people who want the best for you and for themselves

Day 1: Arrival & Setting Intentions

Theme: Meet and reflect

Throughout the Day: Arrivals and check-in

7:30 PM: Welcome Cocktails and Dinner

Day 2: Grounding & Exploration

Theme: Solidifying Your Foundations

7:00 AM: Yoga and guided meditation

9:30 AM: Breakfast together

10:30 AM: Workshop: "Taking Stock of Your First Harvest"

12:30 PM: Lunch

1:30 PM: Mystery adventure

3:30 PM: Free time to explore Tossa, visit the spa, or continue the conversation

8:00 PM: Dinner and conversation, followed by a walk through the old town

Day 3: Designing What's Next

Theme: Planting New Seeds

7:00 AM: Yoga and meditation session

9:30 AM: Breakfast together

10:30 AM: Workshop: "Design Your Life"

12:30 PM: Transfer to mystery location followed by scenic lunch

1:30 PM: Workshop: "Experimentation: Designing Small, Actionable Steps"

4:00 PM: Leisure time

8:00 PM: Dinner and conversation

Day 4: Reclaiming Creativity & Purpose

Theme: Fueling Renewal

7:00 AM: Yoga and meditation session

9:30 AM: Breakfast together

10:30 AM: Workshop: "Building Your Path and Alliances."

12:30 PM: Lunch

1:30 PM: Mystery adventure

4:30 PM: Group Reflection Session: "Harvesting Insights"

8:00 PM: Farewell Dinner at a local venue. Reflect, connect, and celebrate your next steps.

Day 5: Integration & Departure

Theme: Bringing It All Home

8:00 AM: Final coffee and breakfast

8:00 AM - 12:00 PM: Departures and transfers to the airport

If you'd like to extend your trip let us know and we'll connect you to our favorite travel agents.

“Vision without action is merely a dream. Action without vision just passes the time. Vision with action can change the world.”

— Joel Arthur Barker Ratcliffe

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Your next chapter starts here

Join us in Tossa de Mar, Spain

Make your payment to finalize your place at the Retreat with us

Single Room
8,750*
Accommodations and transfers
All meals and drinks
Access to all sessions and leisure activities
Double room
13,500*
Ideal for spouses or partners
All accommodations, meals, and transfers
Access to all sessions and leisure activities
*Prices are in US Dollars. Space is limited so please finalize your spot as soon as possible. If you have questions about logistics, transportation, accommodations and activities, please join our informational calls or read the FAQ's below.
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Reserve your place in Tossa de Mar, Spain

Applications are open now. We limit the group size for this retreat to 10 people. Once we receive your application, we'll reach out for a short alignment conversation. If it feels like the right fit, we will send you a private payment link to finalize your spot.

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FAQs

How does Second Harvest help?

Second Harvest creates the space and structure for people to step out of their routines and look clearly at where their energy, time, and attention are going. Through small groups, honest conversations, and carefully chosen experiences, we help participants reconnect to what actually matters to them now, not who they used to be or who they think they should be. The outcome isn’t a dramatic reinvention or a list of goals. It’s clarity, steadiness, and a grounded sense of direction they can take back into their real life and act on immediately.

Who is Second Harvest for?

Second Harvest is for people in the middle of life who look successful on paper but feel misaligned inside. They are typically in their 40s–60s. They’ve built careers, businesses, families, or reputations. They are competent, responsible, and respected. They’ve done what was expected of them and done it well. What’s changed is not their ability, but their relationship to how they’re spending their time. They feel a quiet exhaustion rather than a crisis. Motivation still exists, but meaning feels thinner. The old goals don’t pull like they used to. They don’t want another productivity system, self-help framework, or motivational push. They’re not broken and they’re not looking to be fixed. They’re thoughtful, curious, and self-aware enough to know something needs to shift. They value depth over hype, real conversation over performance, and experiences that feel human rather than transactional. They’re willing to slow down, reflect honestly, and take responsibility for what comes next. They’re not trying to escape their life. They’re trying to redesign it.

Why Tossa de Mar? Why this location?

Tossa de Mar is a town of rare contrasts. Medieval stone meets Mediterranean water. Hidden coves sit just steps from the walled old town of Vila Vella. And all of it is wrapped in the sun-soaked rhythm of a Catalan seaside summer. Within the Vila Vella, you’ll find an oasis of calm and stillness. Just beyond those medieval walls, cultural treasures and wild coastlines stretch in every direction.

This retreat blends creativity, reflection, and coastal adventure. From the stone streets of the Vila Vella to a slow cruise along the Costa Brava, Tossa de Mar invites reinvention with every step and sea breeze.

What's included in the retreat?

Just about everything except your plane ticket and your curiosity.

  • 3 nights in a beautifully appointed room at the venue
  • All meals, snacks, and drinks
  • All scheduled group workshops, experiences, and adventures
  • Ground transport to any off-site activities
  • Meditation and yoga classes, and guided sessions with expert facilitators

We take care of the logistics so you can focus on the transformation.

How do I apply?

Click the Apply button on this page or go directly to secondharvest.co/apply. Once we receive your application, we’ll set up a short conversation to ensure there’s a great fit—for you, and for the group. If it feels right on both sides, we’ll send a private link for payment to secure your spot.

What if I’ve already attended a previous retreat?

You’re more than welcome to join us again even if you've attended another retreat. While the general structure is familiar, each experience is wholly unique. New rituals, new adventures, and new scenery to inspire fresh reflection. Many Harvesters do come back as part of a seasonal rhythm of personal growth, and each retreat builds on, but doesn’t repeat, what came before.

What are the physical demands of this retreat?

Apart from yoga, meditation and walking through the Vila Vella’s cobbled streets, we might be swimming in nearby coves, hiking coastal trails, paddle boarding, and lounging on Mediterranean boats. Most activities are gentle and optional. If you’re up for something bolder—like diving or coastal kayaking—Tossa has access to those too. Just let us know your comfort level.

What is the purpose of the retreat?

This isn’t just a retreat—it’s the start of a life you don’t need a vacation from. Many of us signed up for the life-plan that was go to school, get a good job, have a family, make millions and, finally, retire to live your dreams. You busted your ass and invested time and effort to make this plan work, only to discover that somewhere along the way status, money, or a sports car isn't enough. Life is not what you thought it would be. Maybe a spouse passed away, or your marriage dissolved, or maybe the market didn't deliver on it's promises. Life took a turn and now you don't have the support, love or money you expected. You realized that planning for retirement is a procrastination of life. Now you're at some midpoint in your life and you're tired of waiting. You’ve given your best years to careers, responsibilities, and expectations. But what about you? If you’re feeling stuck, lost, or like life has been happening to you instead of for you, Second Harvest is your turning point. This isn’t a fleeting escape—it’s the beginning of a clear and purposeful plan, a lifelong system of support, and a future that feels deeply, undeniably yours.

What should I pack?

Think light layers, comfortable walking shoes, athletic wear (for yoga and activities), swimwear, and something you feel good wearing to dinner under the stars or in one of the many chef approved restaurants. Bring the journal we send you, or bring your own. Bring curiosity. And maybe a little extra room in your suitcase—you’ll be leaving with more than you arrived with (emotionally and some local crafts).

Who will be there?

A select group of fascinating humans—think successful professionals, creative powerhouses, and resilient souls in search of what’s next. We spend a lot of time curating the groups and making sure everyone there is showing up for the best reasons. If you’re hoping for trust-falls and firewalking with a crowd of corporate suits or midlife crisis clichés, you’re in the wrong place.

Can I bring a spouse or partner?

Yes, but know that everyone attending the retreat will be expected to participate. This helps us ensure everyone is aligned with the experience. This retreat is designed to be immersive and distraction-free. Discounted rates for doubles are available.

What’s the retreat investment?

Pricing for a full participant is $8,750. For doubles, (plus one guests, like spouses or partners), the additional price is $4,750. A payment page is shared once you’ve applied and we’ve had a short alignment call. This helps us keep the experience tailored, intimate, and intentional. Pricing includes all lodging, food, drinks, programming, and local experiences.

Is it possible to finance the retreat with 0%?

Absolutely! By partnering with Affirm, we're able to offer you $0 down and 0% interest financing for up to 24 months. Simply choose Affirm at checkout to benefit from this fantastic opportunity.

When do you cancel for weather?

We don’t mind a little weather—it’s part of the experience. But if Mother Nature decides to throw a tantrum (think hurricanes, blizzards, or apocalyptic hailstorms), we’ll adjust the schedule or reschedule the retreat. Safety first, transformation and fun second.

What’s your cancellation policy?

We know life happens. If you need to cancel 60 days or more before the day of the event, we’ll refund your payment minus a 25% fee to cover our advance booking costs. If you cancel within 30 days of the retreat start, we’ll do our best to transfer your spot to a future event if openings are available, but no refund will be provided.

How can I find the time for this?

If you’re asking that, you probably need this more than anyone. The people who attend aren’t the ones with extra time—they’re the ones who finally decided to prioritize themselves. Life will always be busy. The real question is: Are you ready to make space for what actually matters?

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